Stay away from me!
I dislike guys who show interests in me when the feelings is not mutual.
I especially hate it when they start asking personal things about myself, knowing from my experiences that they probably wanted to have more than platonic relationship.
It just irritate me so much that the moment I’m prepare to be friendly with people, some may think that I’m open to the concept of having romantic relationship. The fact is I don’t, I may be empathetic in nature and ready to share feelings and thoughts at times, but somehow, sometime have been perceived differently by guys. I really don’t get it. And now I’m becoming phobic of being friends to guys. All I want is platonic friendship, is it that hard? However, I do appreciate guy friends who value platonic friendship, and I hope very soon, I don’t have to filter people for their romantic intention.
P.S. I just don’t understand why these weirdo guys keep on coming my way, I just need some breathing space… today’s experience with a guy irritated me so much that I just couldn’t stop complaining and cursing him behind his back. As a Christian, I know that I shouldn’t be doing this, but I don’t know how to escape all these. Any advice?

2 Comments:
Thank goodness I'm 'safely' married and ageing- there is certain comfort in it, let me tell you :)
I think you should continue to stand up for yourself and vent your annoyance. Being Christian does not mean you need to be placid in this regard-
Weirdos beware!! Baby Christian is concentrating on her love for her Creator :) Step aside!
Pray for wisdom... don't act just upon your feelings. Place God first and let Him guide you to what you ought to do with these people. Always keep God in the centre of your heart, for His wisdom is the ultimate wisdom.
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