Working on family ties...

Our family relationship can be described as: distant, definitely not good at expressing ourselves, and lack of understanding.

Our parents have not been able to spend time with us when we’re growing up except the occasional lecturing and scolding. My brothers and I in the past and now have been keeping to ourselves when it comes to personal problems and annoyance with parents (whenever there’s argument).

I have strayed and done things that are regrettable in the past, and since I’ve become a Christian, I promised myself not to be foolish enough to cling into the past and to have hope in Christ alone.

Now and then, I find myself going back to my old self again when it comes to verbal battle with my parents. I must say this is one of the hardest. I’m known for my patience and obedience to my parents amongst my siblings, but unfortunately it would normally translate into an even bigger outburst if it has reached the limit.

I think our family really needs to stop pretending all is well when so little time is spent with each other. Dear Lord, I pray to you that you would lead us to reconcile our misunderstanding and bitterness. Bless us with the greatest patience, Lord. Thank you, in Jesus name, Amen.